How to remove JS & CSS bloat that is loaded on every page?

One notorious example would be plugin: Contact Form 7

Official document: Loading JavaScript and Stylesheet Only When it is Necessary The best: cf7unloaded/cf7unloaded.php at master · strategio/cf7unloaded

Remove Contact Form 7 scripts and styles through the WordPress action hook API

Conditionally Loading Scripts and Styles for WordPress Plugins

By looking at source code, has_shortcode() functions seems quite slow, so I will use more simpler approach.

function wpdocs_shortcode_scripts() {
    global $post;
    if ( is_a( $post, 'WP_Post' ) && has_shortcode( $post->post_content, 'wpdocs-shortcode') ) {
        wp_enqueue_script( 'wpdocs-script');
    }
}

add_action( 'wp_enqueue_scripts', 'wpdocs_shortcode_scripts', 999);


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$page_id = get_queried_object_id();
$page_object = get_page( $page_id );
if ( strpos($page_object->post_content, '[/slider]') 

--

  JS: wp_register_script( 'jquery-form'
  JS: wp_enqueue_script( 'contact-form-7'
  CSS: wp_enqueue_style( 'contact-form-7'
  CSS: wp_enqueue_style( 'contact-form-7-rtl'

do_action( 'wpcf7_enqueue_scripts' ); 
do_action( 'wpcf7_enqueue_styles' );   

--

add_action( 'wpcf7_enqueue_styles', function() { wp_deregister_style( 'contact-form-7' ); } );
add_action( 'wpcf7_enqueue_scripts', function() { wp_deregister_script( 'jquery-form' ); } );

--

@see: http://contactform7.com/loading-javascript-and-stylesheet-only-when-it-is-necessary/

add_filter( 'wpcf7_load_js', '__return_false' );
add_filter( 'wpcf7_load_css', '__return_false' );

    if ( function_exists( 'wpcf7_enqueue_scripts' ) ) {
        wpcf7_enqueue_scripts();
    }
 
    if ( function_exists( 'wpcf7_enqueue_styles' ) ) {
        wpcf7_enqueue_styles();
    }

Plugin: Disable plugins on conditions

Plugin list

• Plugin Logic / Plugin Logic is the most usable free plugin.
  Plugin Logic - A simple, but forgotten performance plugin - David Waumsley

• Plugin Load Filter / Using Plugin Load Filter has a strange UI but works exactly as needed

• Swift Performance Lite includes great plugin organizer only in Paid version

Ugly UX

• Plugin Organizer really awful UI
• Freesoul Deactivate Plugins
• Plugin Disabler . Asset CleanUp: Page Speed Booster has nice UI but really works only in Pro version
• WordPress Assets manager, dequeue scripts, dequeue styles is part of Clearfy

Paid plugins

• Gonzales was the first WordPress plugin that can disable unneeded scripts on a page-level basis.
• Paid Deactivate Plugins Per Page is paid but best UI by far
• Paid WP Plugin Manager Pro, free version: WP Plugin Manager

Abandoned

• WordPress › Script Logic is not working anymore

I can always do the same programmatically:

• How to Disable WordPress Plugins on Specific Pages and Posts

For scripts?

Conditionally Loading CSS for Shortcodes Conditional Script Loading Revisited